fluterbev ([info]fluterbev) wrote,
@ 2009-06-22 13:00:00
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Meta: The Rules of Fandom (Part 1)
Put the flags out, set off fireworks! I think, after years of flailing in the face of fannish weirdoes weirdness, I'm finally beginning to get the hang of it.

So now, without further ado, I present to you the Rules of Fandom. I have a feeling there may be more posts in this vein to come, hence the fact this one is entitled 'Part 1'.


What happens... When you/your friends do it, it is... When other people do it, it is...
1. Post a critique of a piece of fiction: Perfectly legitimate commentary on something you read. Bullying and persecution.
2. Make disparaging personal remarks about a writer: Totally fine. The writer deserves it because you don’t like her she hasn’t earned politeness or respect. Bullying and persecution.
3. The writer responds negatively: Standing up for yourself. You are bravely fighting back against unjust criticism, and exercising your right to free speech. Pathetic, attention-seeking behaviour. They are whining and should grow a thick skin. Furthermore, it is an attempt to suppress free speech.
4. The writer's friends respond negatively: Admirable. They are loyal and true and standing up for their friend. A mass attack. They are a bullying cabal who are banding together to persecute you.
5. Totally unconnected observers respond negatively: Impartial validation of your position. They are clearly sensible, intelligent individuals who came to a fair conclusion totally on their own. Dogpiling. They have been brainwashed by propaganda and/or are secretly in cahoots with the bullying cabal. Either way, it’s more persecution.


ETA: If you'd like the code for this, you can find it here.


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[info]claudia603
2009-06-22 12:03 pm UTC (link)
*loves this so much* :D

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 12:06 pm UTC (link)
Hee! :-D

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[info]laurie_ky
2009-06-22 12:06 pm UTC (link)
::Boggles:: A chart! ::impressed::

Very clearly organized and succinct.

Laurie

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:38 pm UTC (link)
Thank you! I can only thank those in fandom who are wiser than I for leading me to these conclusions ;-)

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[info]jessriley
2009-06-22 12:14 pm UTC (link)
Hmm, now let me guess where you've been! :0)

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:39 pm UTC (link)
I have been learning the ways of fandom from my betters!

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[info]briarwood
2009-06-22 12:19 pm UTC (link)
So very true.

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:40 pm UTC (link)
Indeed it is!

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[info]boogieshoes
2009-06-22 12:39 pm UTC (link)
*giggles a lot*

right on, Bev! and i say that who *likes* getting serious critiques of my writing!

*offers hugs of glee*

-bs

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:40 pm UTC (link)
Hee! :-)

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[info]caarianna
2009-06-22 12:52 pm UTC (link)
::snorts:: Oh, my God. Too, too funny ... and too, too true!

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:41 pm UTC (link)
I have seen the light. From henceforth these will be rules to live by!

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[info]rhianne
2009-06-22 01:05 pm UTC (link)
Hee!!!! Oh, I hope this is the first of many. Give us your pearls of wisdom, oh great one! ::bottlicks::

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:41 pm UTC (link)
::offers up bott:: Missed a bit there, my sweet ;-)

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You are wonderful
[info]gillyp
2009-06-22 01:21 pm UTC (link)
But then I would say that, wouldn't I

Love, your Sock.

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Re: You are wonderful
[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:42 pm UTC (link)
Dear sock, you are supposed to be made of fabric. Ur doin it rong!

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Re: supposed to be made of fabric - [info]gillyp, 2009-06-22 07:03 pm UTC (Expand)
Re: supposed to be made of fabric - [info]fluterbev, 2009-06-22 07:23 pm UTC (Expand)
Re: supposed to be made of fabric - [info]gillyp, 2009-06-22 07:39 pm UTC (Expand)

[info]tesserae_
2009-06-22 01:41 pm UTC (link)
Crazy people are crazy... like the idea that the Metafandom folks have *time* to advance an agenda, wading through the volume of posts they do!

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:43 pm UTC (link)
But didn't you know? The whole world is one big conspiracy! I haz seen the light ::nods::

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(no subject) - [info]tesserae_, 2009-06-22 06:45 pm UTC (Expand)
(no subject) - [info]fluterbev, 2009-06-22 06:50 pm UTC (Expand)
(no subject) - [info]lady_ganesh, 2009-06-23 05:21 pm UTC (Expand)

[info]isiscolo
2009-06-22 02:28 pm UTC (link)
[via friendsfriends]

Oh, hee. This reminds me of the famous conjugation of nouns: I'm eccentric, you're a little odd, he's a lunatic. I'm assertive, you're aggressive, she's a bitch. And so on.

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:44 pm UTC (link)
Hee! I never heard that before. I might nab that framework for the next lot of rules :-)

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(no subject) - [info]rhianne, 2009-06-22 09:13 pm UTC (Expand)
(no subject) - [info]dysprositos, 2009-06-23 04:26 am UTC (Expand)

[info]carodee
2009-06-22 02:42 pm UTC (link)
Huh. Replace 'friends' with 'allies' and 'other people' with 'enemies' and this is true for the whole world. OMG, Nations, stop acting like fangirls!

Funny and oh so true, Bev.

We are doomed as doomed can be, I must say.

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:45 pm UTC (link)
The world is full of fangirls! Truly there is no hope!

::hides::

;-)

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(no subject) - [info]bumpkin_is, 2009-06-22 08:31 pm UTC (Expand)

[info]starwatcher307
2009-06-22 02:46 pm UTC (link)
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Wonderful! Sadly, too true and, as Caro points out, it happens in RL as in fandom.

May I link to the bottom of my meta post? Sorry; didn't see the answer in my inbox till after I hit 'post'.
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Edited at 2009-06-22 02:54 pm UTC

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:49 pm UTC (link)
The ways of hypocrisy are mysterious indeed! We must embrace it as our god.

No probs. This two journal business can be confusing at times!

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[info]polly_b
2009-06-22 02:50 pm UTC (link)
*giggling like a 12 year old girl*

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:49 pm UTC (link)
::tickles you:: Hee!

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[info]betagoddess
2009-06-22 03:44 pm UTC (link)

I this! *bg*

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:49 pm UTC (link)
I ♥ you! :-)

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(no subject) - [info]betagoddess, 2009-06-22 06:54 pm UTC (Expand)

[info]lxc_gry
2009-06-22 04:56 pm UTC (link)
*snort* I needed a laff and you gave me one... how absolutly true you are... waiting for more :P

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:52 pm UTC (link)
Happy to serve! ::bows::

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[info]ximeria
2009-06-22 05:53 pm UTC (link)
That all seems very familiar XD

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:52 pm UTC (link)
Oh boy, does it ever! LOL

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ROTFLOL!
[info]alyburns
2009-06-22 06:40 pm UTC (link)
This should be on the top of every fandom archive, list, and community. Oh, and our foreheads. *G*

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Re: ROTFLOL!
[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:53 pm UTC (link)
I tell you, Aly. I don't know how I got so far in fandom without knowing this! As of today I am a reformed character ;-)

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Re: ROTFLOL! - [info]alyburns, 2009-06-22 07:12 pm UTC (Expand)
Oh, wait,
[info]alyburns
2009-06-22 06:41 pm UTC (link)
We should ALL post it on our journals!!! At the same time! You need to give us the whole thing, codes and all!

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Re: Oh, wait,
[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:54 pm UTC (link)
But! But! That would be meeeeeeaaaaaan!

Give me a few minutes and I'll see what I can do ;-)

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Re: Oh, wait, - [info]alyburns, 2009-06-22 07:14 pm UTC (Expand)
Re: Oh, wait, - [info]fluterbev, 2009-06-22 07:25 pm UTC (Expand)
Code! Get it while it's hot! - [info]fluterbev, 2009-06-22 07:17 pm UTC (Expand)
Re: Code! Get it while it's hot! - [info]ximeria, 2009-06-22 07:26 pm UTC (Expand)
Re: Code! Get it while it's hot! - [info]karieflybabe, 2009-06-22 07:38 pm UTC (Expand)
AMENDED Code! Get it while it's hot! - [info]fluterbev, 2009-06-22 08:52 pm UTC (Expand)

[info]snailbones
2009-06-22 06:52 pm UTC (link)


Have I mentioned lately how much I loves you?

::pins chart on fridge for easy reference::

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 06:55 pm UTC (link)


See, now you know how it's supposed to go. That table up there? Secret of the universe, that!

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[info]sophinisba
2009-06-22 07:55 pm UTC (link)
[info]claudia603 pointed me here, this is totally right on.

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 09:01 pm UTC (link)
Yay, welcome! Glad you have become a true believer enjoyed it :-)

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[info]lamardeuse
2009-06-22 08:42 pm UTC (link)
*joins your cabal*

*checks cabal membership card*

Oh, wait, I am ALREADY PAID UP. And if it gets punched one more time, I get a free trip to Disneyland!

*loves you*

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 09:01 pm UTC (link)
You have a LIFETIME MEMBERSHIP ♥

::loves you right back::

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[info]mairead027
2009-06-22 08:48 pm UTC (link)
Brilliant.

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 09:02 pm UTC (link)
Hee! ::grabs you for a two-hand reel::

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(no subject) - [info]mairead027, 2009-06-22 11:18 pm UTC (Expand)
(no subject) - [info]fluterbev, 2009-06-22 11:22 pm UTC (Expand)
(no subject) - [info]mairead027, 2009-06-23 03:23 am UTC (Expand)

[info]lit_gal
2009-06-22 08:48 pm UTC (link)
Okay, this is entirely too perfect.

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 09:02 pm UTC (link)
Hee! ::hugs you:: :-)

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[info]cathalin
2009-06-22 10:29 pm UTC (link)
Ahahahaha!

I have no idea whether something specific caused you to do this (and I don't think I *want* to know, lol), but this is beyond awesome.

We can link I assume? If not, let me know. This is just too great not to share with people who might not watch metafandom.

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 10:32 pm UTC (link)
Thank you! I am glad it gave you a laugh. Feel free to link away! The code is free for the taking also :-)

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[info]embroiderama
2009-06-22 10:44 pm UTC (link)
So much truthiness.

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[info]fluterbev
2009-06-22 11:23 pm UTC (link)
Oh, indeed!

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